tmotofga (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I concur. These young men are so full of anger as was I. The women curse worse than I did. I get embarrassed when I hear them speak and I am 48. All it gained me was a damn jail cell and a hard ass time trying to turn my life around for me and my family. I've told them, want to be mad, be mad at me. Want to hurt someone, hurt me. But damn, listen to the truth about yourself and change it. It the end, you won't be mad anymore because you will know no man has power over you. Not even the system.

Ebonytheartist (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Great post man I agree. Both Bm and Bw need to get themselves together.

Ebonytheartist (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

hahahah I almost peed myself when I saw this comment. Both sides meaning many BM and BW are making bad choices and need to take responsibility for their actions. The only people who are innocent in this are the children sad..very sad.

BlackJesus2153000 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

the women r knocking themselves up! By Chosing men they know arent shit displays volunteer single parenting! Fathers, lol they already know they're not going to stay for the long term but still pursue relationships! Men is graves and jail or travelers! They dont raise their children because they dont want them!

Evens1 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

RockAndRollPreacher wrote "its the elders thats supposed to have a way for The Youth" In the true fashion of the arrogant "Black youth" you can not keep your teeth closed. What elders do you expect to deal with you when you are filled with rage?? Learn to keep quiet, that is step one in dealing with elders. Time to snap out of the fantasy go back to school to learn from the elders like TMOT not BET. EV

tmotofga (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

The beef between BM and BM is simple to solve. 1. Men, stop making babies with less than stellar women. 2. Women, stop laying with less than stellar men. 3. Stay in school 4. Stay out of Jail (Felony Convictions). and lastly, 5. Start teaching your kids how to be Men and Women. We have to start somewhere and now. The bad eggs can get on board or they will vanish over time by attrition and be replaced with a more viable generation of True Black Men and Women. Who in Hell can argue with this?

tmotofga (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Listen to him and you will never be free of the snares. Ask him what does he do in the community? Yes, I was doing crime and time. So I ought to know. The truth is, no white man made me enter into that bondage. I chose it. I tell you about it because you can choose not to enter in to it as I did and have a more productive life. I have turned mine around, but it was hell. You want to listen to him, fine, be my guest but I will guarantee he has never organized jack to help Blacks. Choose!

theabomation (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

The part when the brother who smart get an white girl is so true that was funny

Ebonytheartist (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

correction: If you want me to stop asking if BM don't have minds of their own. Sorry about that. =)

Ebonytheartist (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Tony48219IsTRUTH if you want me to stop asking if BM don't help minds of their own and can't make their own choice. Then stop acting as if BM are victims the only person who can fuck up your life is you. if you dealing with these hoodrats then what do you expect you knew that these type of women are no good yet many BM still go after them and have babies by them. Yes it's the woman who has the babies. But it's the man who has to pay child support. Like I said both parties are to blame.